Saturday, July 26, 2025

Have You Noticed The Fees?

 I noticed something quite extraordinary (and expensive!) these last few weeks. Maybe you have too. Have you looked at your receipts lately? A few weeks ago, for the first time in a very long time, my husband and I went out for a late lunch/early dinner at a local restaurant here. When I looked at the bill (as all our fellow frugalistas are known to do) I noticed the restaurant changed us a 3% credit card fee. First off, how did they know we were using a credit card to begin with to justify the fee? Lastly, it was only $2 bucks, so I shrugged it off. We get back 3% from our charge card company whenever we buy groceries or dine out in a restaurant. So, I thought it to be naught.

Next I noticed a new sign being posted at one of my favorite grocery stores (of which I only shop their loss leaders). The sign stated that there was now a $1.99 (two bucks) charge added to any customer's bill  using a debit card. WTF? Isn't debit the same as cash, I asked myself? Why are they charging an extra two dollars whenever a customer is using their bank debit card? Nonetheless, I still wasn't deterred because it didn't affect me. There wasn't any added charged to my credit card and I was still getting that 3% back, remember?

Now comes the real game changer. I went to get a haircut at my favorite, long time salon on Tuesday and I noticed yet another big sign hung up by the cash register. Here in New York, customers are to be alerted if any additional charges will be added to a customers bill. In bright, bold letters, the hair salon announced that there was going to be an additional 4% added to a client's bill if they were using a credit card. To avoid the increase, cash and personal, established checks would reduce the additional fee. Since I didn't have neither the cash nor a check with me (who carries checks anymore) I paid the 4% additional fee but cut the tip. Geez, a girl's gotta live doesn't she? 

These three separate instances had me thinking. If I pay my home insurance, car insurance and RV insurance with a credit card, the insurance companies tack on an $8 a month additional fee. However, if you authorize the insurance company to do a bank withdrawal out of your checking or savings account, they only charge a $2 fee each and every month. When I sat there and thought about these additional fees, I realized I was paying my insurance companies an additional $72 a year just to pay my friggin' bills!!! 

In this economy, when all of us are looking for ways to save money, I quickly changed my insurance bills to autopay (at least my bank isn't charging me for that service. YET!!!) and I am now carrying cash AND my checking account blank checks. Just in case. Is my grocery store charging me fees? Not as far as I can see. But, who will be next on this fee list? What is going on? Every corporation, every company, everyone and their brother are charging the consumer (that's you and me) fees, fees and more fees. 

Prices are going up. Most everyone is struggling to survive. Many are concocting new and ingenious ways to separate you from your money. Be alert, folks! Read the small print. Don't be too quick to whip out your credit card and swipe to pay a bill. Maybe it's time for many of us to go back to the well established 'envelope system'. 


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Friday, July 25, 2025

East Lyme, CT

 Hubs and I spent a few special days in East Lyme, CT. (click here). Sometimes, all you need is a few days (and night) at the ocean. Nothing beats that salty breeze coming off the Atlantic Ocean. Found a good spot to get $6 fresh sea food sandwiches (flounder) and sky high ice cream cones for only three bucks. Delish. Bridges that open and close for the next passing sailboat. Clamming and sunsets. Sometimes just simply standing still and watching the sea-faring world pass you by. Priceless.











Monday, July 21, 2025

Authentic Mexican Cuisine

Nick and I have been doing a bunch of things that have made both of us extremely happy. We still have a lot more events planned and I thought it sort of cool to post a few of what we have already done. First up is an authentic Mexican restaurant my cousin turned me on to. Her son is a foodie and recommended this restaurant highly. We've been back twice so far as we just love it! And the prices. Very reasonable. The food is just oh! so good. I'm in love with their ($8) tortilla soup (despite the hot summer temperatures) and Nick loves the assorted ($15) tacos (beef, chicken and pork). The staff is lovely. Service is divine. 

It's just an all-around good feeling.






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Monday, July 14, 2025

Taking The Summer Off. See You In September (2025).

I need to take a human being break from real life. I'm taking the summer off. I've cancelled all my medical appointments. I need a break from cancer. I don't want to hear the word nor experience any thing more pertaining to the disease or its cure. I'm done. I need a break. I need to return to my real life. Even if it's just for 2 months or so.

I have nothing more inside me to say right now. I just want to enjoy being alive.


See you in September.

Thursday, July 3, 2025

Happy Fourth Of July

I've been MIA for a few weeks and I apologize for my absence. I just got over a 10 week battle with bronchitis. It had gotten so bad at one point I wound up in the ER.  Anyway, I'm back! I'm feeling AOK. I've been back to swimming every day at our community pool. Life has gotten back to normal. Whatever that is? LOL!

Hubby and I are looking forward to a nice enjoyable weekend this 4th of July. The fireworks are back and we are hoping to catch them tomorrow evening. In the interim, I did some shopping. Happily one of the supermarkets out here has a holiday heart. They had so many holiday food products on sale, I couldn't contain myself. There were steaks, hot dogs, chopped beef, corn on the cob, ricotta and mozzarella ($3.99 vs $7.99), watermelon and yes, even Bryers ice cream (our favorite!) Everything I bought on my enclosed grocery receipt was on sale (I bought peaches and duck sauce and cans of clam sauce as well as boxes and boxes of Ronzoni pasta (@.99 cents each!) I purchased 47 items, spent $118.75 (our weekly budget is $125) AND saved $77.68 from simply buying what we needed and wanted.


The best part was getting NY Strip steaks at only $8.99 a pound (down from $12.99 a pound. Unfortunately, the last time they had this sale, the sale price was $7.99. Oh well.). Usually I would get two packages but due to inflation, I only purchased one package. Thankfully the package contained three steaks. We ate one and froze the other two. Normally, in the before time, hubby and I would have one steak each. This time around (and going forward) we had one steak and split it 50/50 between the two of us. It's fine. It was more than enough. I filled up our meal with my home-grown mesclun salad and some corn on the cob (10 for only $2!!)


I don't have a photo of the cooked steak. We scoffed it down in seconds. Delish!
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Shop the sales folks! They're out there. Look for them and support them. My kudos go out to our area grocery store. Thank you for making our 4th of July extra special and memorable. Have a safe and wonderful holiday weekend. Please remember our old America as well as our new America. I'm ending my post today with a song from the hit movie, Yankee Doodle Dandy starring James Cagney. I grew up on this movie. Every summer, at day camp, my fellow day campers and I were notorious for singing many of these special Americana hits, such as Yankee Doodle Dandy, Over There (from WWII) and For It Was Mary.

Enjoy:

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